You guys have been praying... I could feel it the day after I wrote that last post! Three and a half weeks under our belts, here's the update:
The kitchen, downstairs bathroom, and pantry are completely gutted, their remains in a maxed-out 20 yard dumpster out front. I've had the silly idea of listing it on ebay as "used kitchen for sale--some assembly required". Our carpenter has finished framing the necessary walls and doorways, and by week's end we will have a brand-new back door and beautiful new windows.
Last week went a bit off-schedule when we discovered we had special ordered the wrong size door. We'd hoped Lampert's would take it back, but nope, they wouldn't. Then we figured we'd just live with a smaller door, but nope, the city of Hudson wouldn't allow it. So if you're in the market for a 2'6" exterior steel half-lite door with aluminum cladding, let me know--we'll give you a good deal.
That was a blow, and forced us to move ahead immediately with another part of the project we had decided to take on...the staircase. Those of you who have climbed my stairs know they were a deathtrap. Pretty much everyone in our house except for Brian have fallen down them at one time or another, as has my mom. They were more than 45 degrees steep and had treads only 9+ inches deep with a 2 inch lip that made them only 7+ inches deep on the way down. So, with the ceiling downstairs opened up and the staircase accessible, we decided now was the time. The day we discovered the door mistake and redirected to take out the stairs I had just over two hours to pack up the entire family and move out (with our only working bathroom on the upper level, there was no way to live here without stairs). Those two hours showed me what it would be like to be evacuated due to a natural disaster or nuclear war! Our bags packed, the Crim refugees migrated to Wade and Kara's for three days while the staircase was torn apart and rebuilt. The amazing result: a code staircase in a 100 year old house! It makes me smile.
Upstairs Jeff the carpenter also framed in a wall above the stairs in the hallway where my new washer and dryer will go. Mom told me she and my stepdad wanted to get us a new set, so soon I will be doin' laundry in style! The first time I run a load on those beautiful front-load steam machines I think I will break down and weep for joy.
Last night Brian told me he thinks we won't have a functional kitchen for another month, at which point I promptly threw down a pencil and bolted upstairs to cry. Expectations are tough to change. We worked through it and are moving on...what else can we do? There are days when I don't think I can wait one more day for this project to be over, and there are days (like today) where it just doesn't seem so bad. We have been blessed by friends who have made us meals or had us over for dinner and who have invited me over to do laundry, for which we are so thankful. Brian is carrying a lot of stress right now with the project, his other job as youth pastor, his stressed-out and intermittently crabby wife, and a sermon to preach in 10 days, so I worry about him. But we're just taking things one day at a time.
Probably more detail than anyone needed here, but that's the scoop. I know this is all going to be worth it someday. Really. But in the meantime, please keep up the prayers!
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I hardly know what to say, friend. It would be a struggle for anyone to keep their sanity under these conditions...no kitchen, having to cook meals for 6 in a makeshift kitchen, do dishes in a makeshift sink, your only toilet not flushing, living with construction debris & loud noise most of the day, etc. etc. etc. Just trying to keep some semblance of order amidst the busy Christmas season, too. Sheesh! By the way, your daughter just doused a fully dressed doll under water over here. (She got bored when I moved the soap out of reach.)
On a bright note--I love the stairway already. It's going to be just gorgeous! And we're all anxiously awaiting your newly finished, functional, and code kitchen!
so i'm thinking mid january for painting??????
i am praying for you jen. . . i'm sure that there might even be a couple of more little surprises brilliantly described as construction set-backs to help keep your expectations tied to your sense of humor. . .
dave asked about your chinese laundress. . .
mid January painting, Karen? You comin up to help? I'll do your laundry. :)
Thanks for the update. I am over here cheering you on. Give me a G! Give me an O!(and a C,R,I,M which I don't want to type out) GO CRIMS!
Jen,
I'm so sorry to hear that this construction project is adding so much stress to your life.
I hope you and your family will come over tomorrow to celebrate Christmas Eve and won't think of the construction project for a few hours.
Love you,
Mom
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